(Disclaimer, I have no idea about suspension nomenclature
or any affiliation to the companies below. This is just some feedback on my experience)
Finally took the bike to Evolution Suspension in San Jose, CA. I spoke in depth to Rob the owner about the issue with the forks and availability of the Andreani. I also spoke to David at Fastbike about the Andreani's and what needs to be done to get them fitted.
After 2 days Rob had reworked the existing forks as the best solution for me (I dont like to bugger about with the suspension). Upgraded springs, repacked shims, new oil, new valves or whatever (he has some pictures I will add showing the old and the new).
He said the old forks had way too soft springs (I'm 165lb inc gear) and Ducati had packed them down to make them stiffer. he also said the holes to let the oil flow were way too small so when the fork compressed, it didn't really do much as the oil had no where to go and so the force came through the handlebars. He also said that with not too much cost increase, the valves could be changed to let the suspension do what it was suppose to do and no idea why Ducati didn't do / hasn't done this.
I took the bike for a quick ride, aimed for potholes and train tracks and the bike was super compliant, most, if not all of the "grainy, harsh feedback had gone" only issue was it did rise up once and hit me on the butt but that may have been over agressive riding over the train tracks.
I'll collect the bike this week and give it a full test ride this weekend. Rob can tweak as necessary after my ride.
I'll keep ya posted