Sorry, I missed your weight in your first post. I had my ankle reconstructed this week after a MTB accident, so I'm a little off my game.
At your weight in gear, those 0.83 are definitely too soft. If you're sitting on the same kit (165 mm travel), I'd think the 0.93 (sporty) or 0.88 (plush) would be the ticket for your weight. And you're spot on - 1/3 of travel for rider sag is crucial, which is about 55 mm as you say for this bike. The old school sport bike thinking works when you're dealing with a 4.7 in (120 mm) travel fork, which was pretty much every single fully faired sportbike for the better part of 20+ years. If you can get a helper to reset the sag by removing some preload, your ride quality will increase noticeably. In general terms, a heavier spring w/ less preload will ride better than a lighter spring with more preload (within reason, if picking between two or three neighboring rates).